Hmm seems like ages sincE i updated. Hahaz. K Saturday was TLW eh? K TLW being "True Love Waits" service. Hehe, 19 hor? =P I gladly signed that card. lemme see, so it's only 1..2..years? Nah, more like just 6 more months beforE i can "officially" date if yOu want it to be really 19 before i can have a girlfriend. Hahaz. It seemed like forever when i was 14 or so when i first signed the 1st TLW card. At that point of time, 19 was like "when am i ever going to reach that age man" and it seemed so unrealistic and blah. In me i thought to myself " I'm not going to follow that age if i find some1 i really really like". Don't know how mAny of yOu feel this way, must be quite a lot huh? But as someone who JUST went thRoUgh it, lemme share a bit on how i feel, and just think abOut it kayz? =) SHeesh, makes me sound so old. =P
K i've never really had a Real girlfriend before, real being those holding hands kinda girlfriend. Some were online kinds, some were just crushes that never knew how i felt. I've always felt likE hOw nice it'd be with a girlfriend. Well, it sure is nice, but being so young, 14, 15, 16 or whatever age below 19, can you rEAlly say yoU can marry that perSon yOu likE? Do yoU really knOw what yOu want?
For me i always tried to put the persoN i likE into a moUld that made her look perfect, and i disregard all the bad points, which are actually there and are very real. And as i grew older, 1 of the girls i liked Actually likEd me back~ Amazing right? hahaz, never knew pple would like me. But anyway, i din become her boyfriend. Why? Cause our personalities din match. I forsaw that we would argue a lot if we werE tO bE tOgEtHEr. So i grew to understand that feelings were 1 thing, but being able to be togEthEr is another. So yoU'vE gotta be able to live with the bad points before doing anything, causE that persOn is how good he/she is, but is also as "bad" he/she is, well "bad" not beinG naughty or whatever, but the "bad" points he/she has. Yupz
And at this age, are you loOkinG foR a boyfriend/girlfriend, or arE yOu loOkinG for a futurE pArtnEr? If you're just loOkiNG for a fling, what's thE Point? Like why go through the pain and all thE SUpEr bLeAhed mOmEnts which is almost inevitable to happen? I went through crap periods. Like SUPER crap. It was terrible. Though i grew from it, it was a rEAlly really terrible period. I could have avoided that.
So i urge anyonE that's still yOunger than mE to think about it before yOu go around having girlfriends and boyfriends. Trust me on this, 98% of the time the steads yOu have nOw will not last yoU till yOu're married.
Of course yOu can have crushes and talk about them, that's pretty normal, but tryyyyyyyy not to get into a relatioNship so yOung yar? I talk about my crushes too what. =P So yUpz.
Here's wishing yOu all a Happy Chinese New Year~
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