haha, yes i'm back, to update the blog. To all the taggers, i've always came to my page to look at the tags, so it's really very much appreciated. Dun think it's written for no 1 to see. i'm blessed by them. Domo Arigato Gozaimasu. (Thank you so much)
Well, just a lil' update on my life. Past month, i've been on this logistics course since now i'm a logistics officer. Well, thE army really lets yOu leArn lOtsa things that are redundant, but maybe that's cause i find it really really really boring. *yawn* So a word of advice to "army personnel" to be pple, or those that just went in, haha try to like what their talking. or buy something to eat. haha why buy something to eat? cause if u dun, u'll fall asleep in class, which i am so capable of. *blush* haha. but yeah. Anyway, my course is gonna end soon, and i'll be an officer with responsibilites once again. Well, "with power comes responsibility", how true. Those in leadership, be it Church or wherever, just make sure that when you're holding that title "leader" to always think of those you're serving. Well, sometimes you'll need a break and stuff, which is perfectly fine really, but serve them to the best of your ability. Mina san, ganbatteneh (jia you everyone).
Oh yar, before i write anything else, just wanna say "All the best!" for those having your exams now. It's like so going to be over soon. Dun stress yar? And whatever that you did well or bad, dun think about them, just concentrate on what's ahead of you, the rest of the other papers. Yupz. It's like how in soccer, even after say we score 5-0 or 0-5, we still go "guys 0-0" to not be complacent, or not be affected by what has already been done. yUpz
Anyway, there's 1 thing i learned this month. It's about negativity. No it's not the polarity of the magnet. haha k nvm. -_-'' haha. Did you know i used to be this really negative kid? Haha. Now i still suffer from it. (dameyoh) but i still do. But i can say i grew a lil' better, so here's some thoughts from a negative kid. (No sunlight required to see me clearly) Hahaz.
Negatives like the dark, but need Light to shine on them,
well if not they subtract the people around them.
Being positive adds people to your life.
Alright, so why do negatives need light to sHinE oN thEm? Well, just like the developed negatives, the only way to see it is to put it under the light, then you can see the outline and everything else right? So well, negative people need to have positive people around them~ And i do have people around like that, that's why i thank God for them. Really. Some are always +ve, some are really good at listening, some understand. So when you're feeling low, much as you'll want to find some1 good at listening and understand, try finding some that are +ve. You Might be irked cause you think "how can they be so happy?! when i'm like this and blah..." try to understand, that they are that way cause they want u to be happy too. If 2 persons drop in the well, how can they escape? while if one's outside, he can lift the other up.
Why does being negative subtract people from your life. Well, negative is always a minus sign right? So yeah just like math, in real life it draws people away from you. From experience of being negative, and being with people negative, i know this personally. When i was really bleah and everything, well people still listen and understand and all that stuff. BUT, if u're ALWAYS negative, it somehow forms an aura around you that makes people "wah i say what he always 'no lar cannot 1 lar' or 'die le lar' or 'no meaning man'" or whatever, people will get tired. We are humans, and aren't perfect. So pple will nOt want to be with you cause they duno how to react when they're with you, and they will get tired too. No 1 likes to be tired. I've lost so many good friends cause of this. Well not a lot, but enough to =( so dun be like me k?? =)
Now, being positive ADDS people to your life. How true. From observation and experience i know this. There was a period of time where i was really cheerie and all that, cause i was real close to God at that time too. And at that period of time, people remembered my birthday. Like even those that i dun expect to remember remembered! I was like SUPER shocked. But yes, pple talk to me more and everything else. But when i was negative, you can see people just "forget". Not their fault, but yar it happens. And i've this really negative friend, like who always thinks when there are 2 possibilities, the worse will always happen. It's like though my group of friends hang out with him, but he was always "alone" also cause he was always being so negative, that we dun wanna hear all those things kinda thing. So please, be positive!
Okay, for the friends of the negative ones. Realise this, that if you see him negative, when he isn't in front of others, is cause he thinks you are one of the few that is close enough to him to let him show this side of him. So try to understand yar? So yupz
Hmm, now i shall reply the tags.
Abby: 1588j5jj21dsaj Hello back to you!
ZhengXin: haha never expected yOu to pop by, but was nice~ thanksss. =)
Natalie: Yes army is a place that can grow you, or destroy you. Keep your bro in prayer. Meanwhile take care of yourself. You din look that good on sat. Hmm duno if i'm imagining things. But yup. =)
Rachel: yes i'll link you this time! hee. like finally right? hee. take care woooor~
Thanks for always tagging. *tears* till the next time. =)
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