Harlow. Haha, i realised i didn't talk about some other characters that i mentioned. Which is kinda weird, so well, here they are, so make it more complete.
Seung Wan's Dad : Remember i told you that Seung Wan's dad was always scolding/chiding or reprimanding Seung Wan? Well, if you watch the show, you'd know he's doing it in love. In a relationship, especially parent/child or someone older/younger, this element of love will actually come in. It's called discipline. In a love relationship, it's not always those sweet and goo goo gah gah things. Sometimes discipline is required. Just like how our Daddy in heaven loves us, He can't just pamper us, if not, we'll never grow. And sometimes when we need to be disciplined, well, it has to be done then. So when you get scolded, tough as it might be to accept it. Try to. Don't ever hate your parents or whoever for it. Know that they're doing it out of love. Of course, i'm talking in the general disciplining sense, and not the torture kind. Yeah. =) Maybe today you can tell your parents, Thank you for disciplining me. =) hoho
Chae Young : I really didn't like this girl. She was so selfish, she two timed, she wanted to break Seung Wan and Se Jin up even after the 2 got married. Like what the?! So this character, even though she grew ok at the end, i'll be talking about what love is not from her. Well, love's definitely not about satisfying your own desires only. Remember when i talked about love is about the other person? Yar. nothing wrong with wanting to be loved. But don't go around manipulating people to love you. Not that you will, but that's the extreme. On a more suttle sense, it can be when people don't love you, or reciprocate the way you want, you feel hurt and sianed. Well, i would too. But if they actually did something, isn't that enough? Don't expect from man, cause in the end, you'll only be more and more disappointed. Just receive whatever's given to you in grace, and be thankful for it. That way, your life will be much more easy and happy. =)
Shin Bi : What can we learn from Shin Bi. Haha, besides her being ultra duperly cute, i like the straightforwardness and candidness because of her childlike attitude to things. When you love someone, (besides the person you like), just tell the person! I'm not talking about confessing your love. That's a whole different topic. I'm talking about the people you care about. Your friends, your family. Never stop to just tell them how much you appreciate them. WHen she was sad, she'll show it. When she was happy, she'll show it. When you're not happy with someone, talk about it peacefully. Don't just keep it in your heart and let anger or other things grow. Always keep a short account of such feelings, cause it'll only spoil the relationship if it gets harboured for too long. What if it's a hurt that's been lodged inside for very long? I suggest you start talking to someone about it. Cause ultimately, God commanded us to forgive. Just as He forgave us, so should we forgive those that have hurt us. Now, sometimes it might seem we're letting them off the hook, or like, it's not fair to just forgive the person. And you might very well have a valid reason to feel that way too. But think about it. your unforgiveness only serves to eat you from the inside. It doesn't do to the person anything at all. They aren't affected. And think about how unworthy we were, but God still chose to die on the cross for our sins. We didn't deserve it. the thing is we DID NOT DESERVE IT, yet he CHOSE to forgive us. So same thing, that person that hurt you might not deserve it. But you've got to CHOOSE to forgive him. K? think about it.
Alright, so this kinda concludes the whole thing about Wonderful Life, and some stuff about love. Haha. It's not complete of course, but just think about some of the points i guess. =) lotz people!
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